today was a conference at work, on mental health strategies. had been instructed to go (though would've anyway, as it's essential training). surprised to see almost 100 attendees.
the organisers had included some student volunteers, and whilst registering I saw someone i'd supported. at the time they were really low. it wasn't an average day of work when I met them, but a pretty serious intervention. took half a day (then all the follow up work). it was an intense experience. positively, they looked well today. I made a note to speak with them in a coffee break.
turns out my student had been asked to give a presentation to the event, disclosing their experience of accepting/realising they had a health issue, and the trials of getting a diagnosis and the immense difficulties accessing support services. it was a tough listen, and the student was very open.
unbeknown to me at the time we met they'd recently made an attempt. our meeting was described as possibly the most significant experience they'd had. as a result, a lot of support is now in place, and the student now has an understanding of numerous aspects of their character and behaviour. I'd had a family member experience something similar to their situation, and we spoke about the challenges and difficulties they were having (and would have), but also spoke about how things can be better, and will be better. the student said in their talk this discussion remains with them to this day.
it was a pretty overwhelming experience. I was sat at the back of the hall, and thankfully wasn't mentioned by name.
we spoke in the interval. it was so heartening to learn of the progress made, the improvement in them, their smile! I'd never seen them smile so much. the improvement they've undergone is phenomenal.
I felt critiqued somewhat by some colleagues about what I did with this student. I made a call at the time that it was a crisis situation. I also possibly ruffled some feathers by questioning a lack of support available.
but it was fucking worth it. I am so pleased that the student has been able to improve themselves, and develop their wellbeing so much.