Things that make you SAD thread.

[Kenny]

Cheers Chaps.

A tough 24 hours and having to do things you never want to do. Odd feeling of wanting life to stop for a minute but realising that life just goes on as normal around you. Proud of how my wife is dealing with this.

 

[Deutsch Wolf]

You're doing alright big man.

Found out this week that a good friend of mine is terminally ill. I don't know how long she has left. Life isn't fair sometimes, we just have to get on with it.

 

[Parkins left foot]

Cheers Chaps.

A tough 24 hours and having to do things you never want to do. Odd feeling of wanting life to stop for a minute but realising that life just goes on as normal around you. Proud of how my wife is dealing with this.

Sorry to hear this Kenny - just be there to support your wife. Quite often the worst time is after the initial proceedings have taken place (as there is a lot to organise immediately after the event) & the comedown/real grief comes later.

 

[Paddingtonwolf]

Cheers Chaps.

A tough 24 hours and having to do things you never want to do. Odd feeling of wanting life to stop for a minute but realising that life just goes on as normal around you. Proud of how my wife is dealing with this.

You are doing fine. Things you have to go through because they have to be done are really tough, but I am sure you know that already. Just be there for her indoors and help with the crap organisation stuff and you won't be going far wrong.

 

[Alan]

Small beans in the grand scheme of things, but the girl I've been seeing, who I truly believed was the love of my life, who I was ready to marry and start a family with (after never once having ANY inclination toward being a father before I met her), has just broken things off out of nowhere.

It feels like my stomach has been ripped out. I am utterly, utterly heartbroken.

 

[leedswolf]

Small beans in the grand scheme of things, but the girl I've been seeing, who I truly believed was the love of my life, who I was ready to marry and start a family with (after never once having ANY inclination toward being a father before I met her), has just broken things off out of nowhere.

It feels like my stomach has been ripped out. I am utterly, utterly heartbroken.

That's shit mate. I'm truly sorry.

 

[Tredman]

Sorry to hear that Alan, not much anyone can say except it will get easier.

 

[Langers]

Sorry to hear that Alan, not much anyone can say except it will get easier.

I echo the above, Alan - sorry to hear it. I've been there, it's fucking horrible but it DOES get easier.

 

[PPB]

Awful for you Alan, but the blessing is is that it happened now rather than if you had got married and had kids. A broken heart does mend. Give yourself time.

 

[Alan]

I've never experienced proper grief before and the way my body is dealing with it is fascinating, in a morbid sort of way.

Appreciate the well wishes.

 

[Dublin Drummer Wolf]

I've never experienced proper grief before and the way my body is dealing with it is fascinating, in a morbid sort of way.

Appreciate the well wishes.

I got dumped after a 4 year relationship back in 2010 and I remember lying in bed one night and I felt so heartbroken I could literally feel a pain in my chest.

Around that time i signed up to TWF.... it certainly helped take my mind off things at the time!

 

[Derby Wolf]

Found out an old friend passed away today, 33 years old and hit by a van. One of the genuinely nicest people who you could wish to meet. RIP Ant.

 

[PPB]

Deleted... Not the place to put it

 

[Pablowolf]

It's well known in certain circles that my dog is a tough mofo. After his X-Rays today, turns out that 5-6 weeks ago (best guess) my dog badly fractured his elbow. It's well on the way to being healed, but the only thing we've noticed in him is a persistent limp.

Still, he's scored himself a boat load of Tramadol so it's not all bad.

 

[Kenny]

Your dog is a proper sicknote

 

[Pablowolf]

Never uses a path when there's anything else he can walk, swim or wade through.

Those fuckers at PetPlan rue the day they signed Oscar T Dog up.

 

[Jolemai]

A family friend passed away this morning following a battle with cancer, one which returned following a successful battle with breast cancer a few years before.
She leaves a husband and two young boys who are best friends with my own. She was only 40 years old.
She was arguably my partner's best friend and I can't console her until I knock off from work in six hours' time.

 

[lemonjelly]

Sorry to hear this jolemai. Trust you'll be with your partner soon, and looking after her.

 

[Jolemai]

Thanks mate ��

 

[PPB]

Surgery to remove affected areas set for December 12th.

Sad, scared, worried,frightened.