Now, I get all that. I really do.
My point is, "you" are wanting to do something that will drive me insane, every day. And I can't change it. I wish I could, but realistically it will be set in stone next week. I think it is a horrific mis-step. But, as I have said before, I don't blame those that voted for it. I blame those that set the referendum up. THEY thought they wouldn't lose. THEY misinterpreted the level of ill-feeling. THEY ran an appallingly poor campaign that meant they really missed a political open goal. So now we are where we are.
However, I and over 16 million others voted against this. I think we have the right to go on about what a crap idea we think it is. We have the right to not wish to engage in the process and say to the leave campaign - this is your bed, you lie in it. We have the right to wash our hands of the affair and let those that voted for it now sort out how it is going to work.
I have moved away from the thick ignorant brexiters rhetoric over the months since the vote. That was my original angry reaction. And I apologise for that. I don't think it was right. As I say I blame the two campaigns. And one campaign has won and now must deliver.
I won't be joining in. And to be honest if the way Britain comes out of it doesn't fit comfortably with me, I reserve the right to move away* from the country at a later date (if I could ever afford it).
*this would not mean joining my brother in Oz. It is a billion times worse there!