As he (eventually) admitted the Grooming charge, it's fair to say he Groomed her.He hardly groomed her. She was up for it more than he was. He was the one who stopped the relationship before they had full sex. She wanted to continue.
He hardly groomed her. She was up for it more than he was. He was the one who stopped the relationship before they had full sex. She wanted to continue.
He didn't really have much choice I expect. As I said, better to plead guilty and show contrition than contest charges you have no chance of winning.As he (eventually) admitted the Grooming charge, it's fair to say he Groomed her.
He hardly groomed her. She was up for it more than he was. He was the one who stopped the relationship before they had full sex. She wanted to continue.
He didn't really have much choice I expect.
Yet if it had happened 12 months later the law would be perfectly fine with it all. She wouldn't be a child or a victim and he wouldn't have been grooming her. The age difference would have been frowned upon but that's it. When in reality those 12 months could have made no difference to her actual maturity on the issue.
I just find it all very arbitrary and rigid when in real life it's much more complex, with both sides contributing to what happened.
Sorry if this is at odds with other people's views but I tend to look at all sides of an issue and try and understand what happened and why, not just rigidly quote the law and an arbitrary age of consent, which is different all over the world.
not just rigidly quote the law and an arbitrary age of consent
So if she'd been 12 and acted in the same way, you'd have been comfortable with that? I'm not about to look up ages of consent around the world but I imagine there's somewhere in the world where you can marry a 12-year-old. If you wouldn't be comfortable with that can you explain why?