jd1981
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Respect comes in all forms and ways and isn’t an all you can eat Buffett where you pick and the choose the bits you like.
Example in this situation is people think it’s fair game in a football ground as it’s just “banter” and it’s not officially directed at an individual.
Biggest thing to ask is would it be reasonable to say or sing the same thing at work or to someone face if the answer is no then don’t do it at the football then hide behind the banter mantra.
Secondly how do you know that someone in the ground isn’t offended by it or feels intimidated by it?
Example in this situation is people think it’s fair game in a football ground as it’s just “banter” and it’s not officially directed at an individual.
Biggest thing to ask is would it be reasonable to say or sing the same thing at work or to someone face if the answer is no then don’t do it at the football then hide behind the banter mantra.
Secondly how do you know that someone in the ground isn’t offended by it or feels intimidated by it?