Just picking up on the above, I spent the last 36 hours viewing 6 different places. It's a miserable market, especially within the M25. I look at people in my family who brought only in the last 10 years and my budget now would've got two of houses they have, and you wouldn't be as cramped as these places either.
I'm just having a moan, you folk seem to know better than me what the solutions could be. I struggle to fathom is it worth just getting anything (not falling apart) to start to build equity, especially when age is starting to creep up on you with the alternative is to consider paying a mortgage into retirement, and no sign of an improving market? Everyone tells me that getting a step on the housing market however you can is the best thing to do...
A few thoughts on this…
Firstly, looking through the prism of historical rises and equity gains that have gone before is going to be very damaging. Things are very different so perhaps try and view this as buying to secure your future, the importance of which should never be underestimated.
Even without factoring in any capital growth, you’ll still be reducing the debt each month and a simple mathematical equation will be able to tell you by how much. That’s a decent slice of the cake banked each month and the interest, well, that’s just a payment that allows you to bank your bit. If the interest gets to you occasionally just remember the whole of your rent went down the toilet and you never got to bank any of it.
Even the daunting mortgage payments slowly get eroded through inflation, pay rises and so on, and before you know it will just become a smaller and smaller cut from your monthly budget. Your monthly shop at Sainsbury’s becomes more than your monthly mortgage so the fear of being trapped til you’re 60/70/whatever is likely to be worse than the reality.
Eventually though you own your asset outright. You could end up with significant equity of your own through capital growth and end up empathising with others in the position you once were. Who knows, there may be other moves to larger places along the line to give options of downsizing, moving to a cheaper area etc which could liberate funds to make facilitate lifestyle changes and make things work for you. With options you at least have some control.
All that of course is the opposite of renting with ever increasing costs and no end game.
One last quite difficult curveball though; think very carefully about where you are with your career and earning potential. If there is strong realistic growth then you can commit with the view of this property being a stepping-stone, and any sacrifices therefore (space/location/etc etc etc) being (relatively) short term. That’s then very easy to manage psychologically and you can enjoy the excitement of being a first time owner knowing the future is even brighter and you can move on from any irritations. If however that is unrealistic then you have to be very sure you will be happy living in your purchase long term. In those circumstances I would consider a relocation to a more affordable area and living in a HOME you were comfortable in and looked forward to coming home to. I’ve 2 kids going through this also in London at the moment with the same dilemma. I don’t know I would want to make those sort of sacrifices to be in London and would put the emphasis on a suitable safe home, but then of course I’m not young or trapped by a London salary. Only the individual can make that decision for themselves and I guess that applies to cities everywhere, but you can’t have your cake and eat it.
So there’s a bit of a mixed bag in there. It can all be very daunting and hopefully there’s something that might be useful to take forward. I know there’s intense pressure to ‘grab’ something to get started, but unfortunately the purchase just isn’t a stand-alone thing, it has to be considered within the framework of all of the above and I really don’t envy you working it through.
Finally though, give yourself a huge pat on the back for getting to this point, it’s a tremendous achievement. Don’t worry about what others have done in the past or ‘might-have-been’s’, it’s your journey and your future.
Very best of luck.